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That makes the position clear without immediately raising the issue of adoption papers! It is also of vital importance to talk to your children about the new situation and to get them ready for a possible change in the make-up of your family.
With older children, it is a good idea to include them at a suitable stage in the process of getting to know your partner.
Younger mothers in particular tend to feel they have to resign themselves to a single state.
“They would do better to gather their confidence and go actively in search of a new partner,” thinks Schiller.
At the least they should know if you are looking for a new relationship.
It can be discouraging for a single mother to hear people say that it will be hard for her to find a man - at least until her offspring achieves a level of independence.
It’s the kind of thing that other single parents tend to say - or at least the ones who haven’t undertaken to find a new partner after a split.